Preparing for Goodbye
Making space for love, comfort, and meaning
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Saying goodbye to a beloved companion is one of the hardest things we do—and one of the most meaningful. Whether you’re preparing for an in-home euthanasia or simply navigating this emotional time, these gentle suggestions can help you plan, reflect, and honor the journey ahead.
Creating a peaceful space
Choose a quiet area where your pet feels most safe—on their favorite blanket, in a sunbeam, their garden, or on your lap. Dim lights, soft music, and comforting scents can help soothe your pet and your family.
If outdoors, consider a shaded park or favorite trail where your pet loved to be. We’re happy to join you in these special places.
Their last meal
If your pet is still eating, offer something special—ice cream, a cheeseburger, their favorite treat. The first injection includes sedation and pain relief, so having something tasty on hand adds comfort and joy to their final moments. Dr. Ken will bring along Churu cat treats, beef jerky and chocolate kisses.
Bucket list ideas
Some families find meaning in creating a final “bucket list” to celebrate their pet’s life:
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A last walk or car ride
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Special time with loved ones or other pets
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A paw print or lock of fur
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A photo session
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A farewell party or small gathering
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Looking through old photos and sharing stories
Talk to your family
Include children, other household pets, or loved ones in the conversation. We have resources to help children understand pet loss in age-appropriate ways, and guidance on whether pets should be present for the euthanasia.
Consider ceremony or ritual
Ritual can be powerful and grounding. You might light a candle, share a prayer, tell your pet’s life story, or simply sit together in silence. Dr. Ken can help you design a meaningful farewell during or before the visit.
Practical preparation
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Think about who you want to be present
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Decide whether you'd like to bury your pet or arrange cremation
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Gather any comfort items (blankets, toys, treats)
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Let us know about gate codes, access needs, or parking
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Ask someone to help you carry your pet if needed